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December 01, 2009

10 Values : Build To Last

Credited to http://www.straitstimes.com/SME+Spotlight/SME+Blogs/Working+towards+Success/STIStory_453404.html
By : Elim Chew, Founder of 77th Street

A Good Friend Mr. Tan Ye Peng, the founder of CityCare and Social Innovation Park Fellows Award 2008 winner shared with me about ten values to build companies to last. The SIP Fellow Award is an award to recognize outstanding and high-achieving individuals who are creating systemic change to the community and Mr. Tan was one the four award recipients.

I had the opportunity to share these same values that I live by, at the NUS Commencement Ceremony for Business School with a graduation class of 400 to 500 students. I was the speaker and presiding office to give out the scrolls.

As the speaker, I saw the faces of graduates who would be facing the world as they leave NUS to impact the business community or to start their own business.

I trust that the 10 values I shared with them will bring them success in life and the business they are involved with. I believe as you begin to apply them, you will see positive changes that you desire to see happening to you also.

People often ask me how I become successful in what I am doing or how they can be successful in life. I do not believe in get-rich-quick schemes or any shortcuts. They may get you somewhere for a while but eventually it is about building your character and values as the foundation and cornerstone in your life that will bring you true lasting riches and success. The values on Building to Last are the very values that I treasure and live by.

10 Values: Build to Last: Here we go!

1. LOYALTY

Choose who you align yourself with.

In a company, the CEO's vision becomes your vision.

If you are managing your own company, you would want your staff to be loyal to your vision so that together you can achieve it.

2. COMMITMENT

You must be committed to the company and whom you have chosen to align yourself with,

Vision without commitment is not going to get you anywhere.

You can set many visions but if you are not committed to it, nothing will happen.

3. RESPECT

Respect for one another, respect for the leadership that you are under. Speak well of each other. Show proper respect to whom honour is due.

It is important to learn how to respect and honour one another. When you respect others, you are respecting yourself and respect will follow after you. Attitude is everything.

4. ACCOUNTABILITY

You must be accountable to your CEO - the one that sets the vision. If you are not accountable and connected to your CEO, you would not know.
- Whether the strategy is updated?
- Whether you are still in the right direction that your leader wants you to do?

When there is accountability, there will be update on the progress, accurate communication and constant evaluation to empower you so that you can play a part to add value to your company. Then we are building something that will last!

5. FAMILY
You can be working so hard for your family but you have no time to enjoy with them. Nobody at the end of his life, would be lying down on his bed and say his last words, "I wish I can work one more day!" No! They would probably say, "I wish I had spent more time with my family.

6. LOVE
Without love, you cannot build anything that will last.
Love what you do, love yourself and love people.
You will build a great team to help you and a great network of contacts.
The value of who you are is in the network of people you know.
If you love what you do, everything is possible. If you love what you do, then you need not work for the rest of your life because you are doing something that you love. Isn't that nice?

7. FAITHFULNESS OR TRUSTWORTHY
You often hear the saying, "When you are faithful in what is little, you will be faithful in much." Faithfulness in the little things like punctuality, submitting reports on time, keeping to deadlines and especially when dealing with money or handling what belong to others. When you are faithful in the little, you can be trusted with more responsibilities and promotion will come along.

8. HARD WORK OR DILIGENCE

To deliver above and beyond what is required and to do it well through hard work or diligence. It is about delivering excellence. In doing that, you will be noticed and opportunities will present themselves.

9. INTEGRITY

The more you build your life on integrity, the better will be your way and greater will be your life. You will build trust, people will believe in you and this is the way of a good and trusted leader. A leader that people will willingly follow and respect.

10. GENEROSITY

Be a giving person, a giving organization
Give and much will be given back to you.
I learn the most in volunteering and giving back to the community.

As a Founding Director of the Social Innovation Park, One of the ways that I am involved in to contribute to the community is to champion social entrepreneurship movement which uses business models to solve social issues.

Interestingly, there is an existing global interest in Singapore as the Centre for the 3rd Sector in Asia - creating sustainable change through social entrepreneurship. This 3rd Sector encompasses non-governmental organizations, the non-profit, the voluntary welfare organizations, charities, co-operations, social enterprises and philanthropic bodies.

Charities here pulled in a record $820 million last year. Singapore has great potential as the Centre for the 3rd Sector where our local Warren Buffets and Bill Gates can do good with the bulk of their wealth.

Being in this movement has given me great opportunity to connect not just locally or with Asia, but also GLOBALLY.

Coming back, as I stood there evaluating my purpose at the NUS Commencement Ceremony, I saw Alvin Pang receiving his degree from me, I knew that was the reason for my purpose. My heart was filled with tears of joy.

Few years back, Alvin Pang wrote his story in my book "My Voice", a compilation of youth stories. Alvin was a school dropout and was not able to continue his studies when he failed his PSLE. Due to poor family background he had to work to help support the family. He had to work in all kinds of odd jobs such as newspaper delivery, cleaner, stall assistant because of his lack of education. He often felt the discrimination of others but he was determined to change that by saving hard to go back to study again.

He believed that if he can do every kind of job well he would have no problem with studies. Indeed, he passed his O levels as a private candidate and at 27 years old, he graduated as an outstanding student in Ngee Ann Polytechnic Mass Communication diploma course and went on to pursue his dream at the NUS Business School.

Finally, his spirit of working hard and not giving up has earned him a degree at age 30. Alvin is a great example that when you abide with positive values, it will surely come back to you in a positive way some day. I always believe as you pave your path with the right values, one day it will lead you to the right path.

When much is given, much will be given back to you.

Everything I have today is given to me because I live by these 10 positive values.

10 VALUES TO BUILD TO LAST:

LOYALTY

COMMITMENT

RESPECT

ACCOUNTABILITY

FAMILY

LOVE

FAITHFULNESS

HARDWORK

INTEGRITY

GENEROSITY

ONCE you have these 10 values, I believe you will build a firm foundation for great leadership.

Positive values make you different from others.

Positive values attract opportunities.

November 29, 2009

Luv Hari Raya Haji?

Japanese Cuisine SHIMA Restaurant located @ Goodwood Park Hotel.
Rated at 4.5 / 5* in forum and highly recommanded by Dearest's bulkmates so we decided to make our trip there on friday which is Hari Raya Haji.
First dish to start our day : Yummy Salad. Taste real nice and we finish it in less den a few minutes.
Prawn! Our favourite! Crispy.
Our chief of the day.
Salmon with sauce ( cook with salmon bone )
This bowl of garlic rice costs us $9!!
The food was yummy but the bill was scary. I guess is going to be our first time and last time visiting there.
Thanks Dearest for the treat.
Next , we went around Bugis and Orchard to search for Dearest's cross necklace.
Tree at Bugis Junction.
*  Best photo of the day.
So we end our day with 2 cups of starbucks coffee and apple cheesecake. * Huggies*

&& we watched new moon. rated only 3 / 5 I guess. not really nice because is not according to the book and Dearest was half asleep when waking.

p /s : next post , big day for  rachel, andre , haoren and myfan! WATER BAPTISM!
so stay tune! ^^
November 25, 2009

Recent Update!

Helooooooooo everyone!!!! I'm back to blog once again and I've been so so so busy busy busy with my schoolwork and also my upcoming "work" (will share more soon).
Ok that aside, so next week I can't remember which day, Cf , SophiaL and I head down to the new Timbre ( pub to relax with nice music)  which is located @ East Coast and we spent like 20 mins finding it and finally we found the place.

Mobile Timbre located @ East Coast , Nice place to chit - chat and fellowship.
Yummy Pizza. Rate : 4.5 / 5 Gotta try it if you go there.
MF was there as well as his friend was celebrating her 21th birthday.
And my favourite quote : I'm not drunk and I'm not drunk.
And on Sunday , Service @ Jurong.
A Group Photo.
And guess what , Dannybf came along with me. Make me feel so happy because he only managed to book out in the morning at 8am and he need to book in at 8pm , but despite feeling tired, he still make the effort me all the way to Jurong for service. No wonder, I choose you as my soul mate. *Huggies*
&& , I'm starting to love public holiday. Thank God friday is Hari Raya Haji and I get to see dannybf TMRRRRRRR! I'm feeling overjoyed right now. Not only that, Cheeloong is coming back today! I miss him so badly my beloved leader! As for now, time to get back to my Application , Presentation, Session, Transport, Network, Data Link and Physical. And Yes! All the Network Tech stuff.
And I haven't been study much! Oh dear, back to study!
November 21, 2009

I love You, You love me.

Olympic-pians.
All I want for Christmas is You!
November 18, 2009
Revival , I'm back.

Baby was craving for this waffle which costs $3.60. Recommanded by his bunk-mates.
Taste real Yummy-Yummy and we bought back one for Aunt Connie.
Healthy Lunch at Vivo.
I'm bumming over to Jemima's place in 15 mins time , really feel loved because Aunt is cooking dinner for me. Baby is having his 2D1N sit test right now. Really hope that he will do well. Rain Rain Go Away!
Today, I bum up to Welly. My secondary CHEC friend. Really miss him alot. Oh ya, did I mention , Chee Loong is coming back next week. Can't wait man. My beloved leader is finally back!!!  As for now, time to pack and ciao.
November 14, 2009
Say hello's to my messy hair. I'm currently at home because Dear got confine AGAIN!!!
Poor boy but is okay, we will go through together okay. Remember what I always tell you,
" love is not all about feeling, feeling is like a yoyo, will go up and down. love is committment."
xoxo
p.s : I love my pretty nice nails.
November 09, 2009
I spell my weekend, I enjoy being with You.



Expo service with Cassalyn and Vanessa. Nice catching up with them.
xoxo, my bang looks weird.

Pls pardon me for blogging at such a late hour , I'm still in my happy mood because..... I've finally get to see Dear on saturday. I miss you so badly, did not managed to hear his sexy voice for the pst six-days. First of all, really want to thank God for his protection over Dear during his field camp. Danneth and I are very grateful to have God as our Lord and Saviour. He is awesome, and he always take good care of his children.
Anyway, went sat service with Cass and Vanessa. And meet Dear after service, Jack Place for dinner and Samantha's 21th birthday party at East Coast Park. Went for a stroll at the beach after that.

As for today, went morning service with one of my friend and meet Dear in the afternoon. Enjoy spending qualitiy time with him. We went Tampines for some window shopping and JCO donuts for our high tea. And before he book in, we went dinner with his parent to this Beach Road steamboat which taste yummy. Love talking to Danneth's mummy. She never fail to share with me funny things that Danneth did when he was young.

Now, before I've hit the sack. I want to wish.....
A BIG HAAAAAPPPPPY BIRTHDAY TO YUPIN, STEPHANIE AND CLAUDIA!
( my member and council friends) three of them play an important part in my life.

Last but not least, I want to end the post with a picture, Danneth's driving and he looks so cute. Botak army guy!

November 08, 2009
Lip balm , Lip Gloss. Make me High..

Chapped Lip Cure.
Hi folks, first of all, I would like to thank all of  those who had voted for me for the acnes creamy wash contest. Keep voting alright, really need all the votes. :)
Next up, if you guys have been following me on twitter or facebook, you will know that I was selected to attend a High Tea session with 6 other fr3b members at Fullerton Hotel , the Courtyard. It was my virgin time experience going there.
Yummy - cakes , sandwiches and muffins are served.
Not only that, Mentholatum was such a good host and each fr3b member was given a big of goodies.
And I've decided to bless all the girls who attended the CGM. And of course, one for mark. Men Lip Balm
since he is serving the army soon.
credit to joanna.
Get to know more about Metholatum product like acnes creamy wash and lip balm. Really impressed esp the latest lip balm. Do check it out. Smell real great and with an SPF 15.
xoxo
November 07, 2009
Hair Treatment with Judy and Alvin. Love talking to them.

Happy Hour with Jemima. Love talking to her.
Thanks for blessing.
November 07, 2009
Blogging Contest
Acnes Medicated Creamy Wash
Have you heard of the brand : Mentholatum?
A few weeks before, I  recieved an email from FR3B concept store to try out this new product : Acnes Creamy Wash. Beside that, I was also given a nice song-cd and a notebook.
Some reviews for the Acnes Creamy Wash :
Price : $6.90 ( Can be found in any Watsons , Guardians and Any Department Stores)
The Price is pretty reasonable. If I'm not wrong, there is 20% currently at Watsons and special discount for Watson card holder.
Net Weight : 100g ( I use it everyday and I can use it up to 1 month plus)
As it is quite creamy, just squeeze a small amount onto palm will do. Lather with water and massage gently onto face. Rinise throughly with water.
Nice milk- colour.
Objective of Mentholatum Acnes Medicated Creamy Wash : Removes excess sebum and keeps you skin soft and moist. Mild and non- irritating creamy wash for daily use to effectively prevent pimples!
Usuge: Gently cleanses your face to prevent acne.
My personal review: My first impression of ACNES CREAMY WASH was " I don't have acnes, does this creamy wash benefits me" And the answer is : Yes! For me, I don't really have oily skin ( maybe only the T - zone area) but I have real dry skin. Acnes Creamy Wah doesn't really dry up my skin but instead increase the moist level.
After wash feeling: The after - wash feeling is great , feel that my skin is more refreshing.
Want to say " No" to pimples ? Try Acnes Creamy Wash
But as for now, Please vote for me!

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